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How To Get Your Woman To Love Spanking
I have the ultimate sure-fire way for you to get the woman in your life into spanking. Follow my plan and I guarantee you'll have good solid spanking fun in the comfort of your own home within the next six months. Forget the ads, internet newsgroups and scene parties.
Don't waste your time meeting people who have nothing in common with you other than spanking. Don't get sucked into the 'spanking scene' which has nothing to do with your lifestyle or reality. Instead find your perfect match the conventional way - work, clubs, blind dates. Create your own scene with the woman you love.
||The Obvious Methods Don't Work
Many advocates of the spanking lifestyle tell you the only way to meet someone into spanking is to find someone else within the scene. They suggest you go to scene parties, place ads or join internet newsgroups. I disagree.
If you are looking to meet your life partner, chances are good they won't be at an event or on an internet group. You need to have more in common than spanking. Would you base a relationship on your love of blow-jobs? Spanking is only one small aspect of your life. It's a charged aspect only because it's something you don't have. Once you incorporate spanking into your lifestyle, you'll need a great deal more in order to have a well-rounded on-going relationship. Just like you can't have sex all the time, you can't be spanking 24 hours a day. I know you want to now, but think of the whole picture.
Ads and scene events are your very last resort. I have a sure-fire way for you to get your mate to play. The key word here is mate. The lady has to be someone who is involved with you for a long time or someone you know is 'the bomb'. This is the person you have lots of things in common with and there's some kind of commitment or potential for an on-going relationship. This is the person you can meet at work, at a social event, a political rally, at the gym, on a blind date, at the park or anywhere. I believe that you can convert your own mate into a spanking playmate, if you are confident and follow my plan.
She may not be as obsessed with spanking as you (that you must be born into) but she'll be an enthusiastic play partner. The right woman will be more than happy to do whatever it takes to please their man.
Confidence Is The
How Do You Get
That Spanking Confidence?
It's not so easy to find a girl who likes spanking so why not to do a professional session or two in order to get your feet wet? Lucky for you, there are many pros that are well versed in the aspect of spanking and discipline.
A good professional will guide you and help you explore the fantasy. If she's worth her money, she'll also give you a feeling of unconditional acceptance. Hopefully, you won't feel so alone or freaky after you actually get some good, real playtime under your belt. While you're there, I suggest you experience both sides of spanking (giving and receiving) - remember you're doing research. How are you going to give a spanking if you've never felt one yourself?
You can also get experience by answering ads or going to parties. However, you may not always get what you want and there's a great deal of risk when you deal with strangers. Parties are good in that they reinforce the fact that you are not alone in your love of spanking. If you go, enjoy the experience but don't count on getting too much playtime or meeting someone to date.
You're The Salesman
When You Introduce Spanking Into Your Relationship
When Should I
Broach My Partner?
My method allows you to ease in slowly and purposefully. All you have to do is leave your inhibitions at the door and find the actor that lies within you. The great part is that you can be somebody other than yourself. You can play any part that you can imagine. I'm talking about doing some fun role playing that's guaranteed to steer her towards having positive feelings about spanking.
|What is Role Playing?
Role playing is kind of like acting. It entails setting up scenarios and playing them out. I do scenarios successfully in my sessions all the time. It allows me to connect and play with almost anyone. Even though I often do spanking sessions with people I barely know and oftentimes with newcomers, once we begin role-playing inhibitions fly out of the closet. It's easy because all of a sudden we become someone else. We think - it's that person who needs a spanking. It's that character who is getting what they deserve.
Role-playing allows you to act out all your favorite spanking stories. You know the ones I'm talking about.you can be the teacher, boss, next door neighbor, football captain, uncle or daddy; virtually anything that strikes your fancy.
Why Do They Work?
Role-plays reveal a deep-rooted part of the spanking psyche. It's possible to learn a great deal about a person's inner being by the way they give and receive a spanking. Role-plays are sweet and extremely erotic, Every time I do a role-play it's a little different depending on my mood and the person I'm role playing with. Trust me, it's a spanking good time!
How To Start
How To Explain Role-Play Night
Reinforce the fact that role-playing has nothing to do with wanting different partners. Explain that you had always wanted to try this, but until you met her, you never had the nerve. Make sure she knows that you are asking her to share this night because she's special and she's someone you trust.
Here's the hard part. You can't jump into spanking role-plays too much on this first evening. If you want my plan to work, you need to be patient and concentrate on showing her a good time. This is your lady's night. Make it special, be attentive and make sure she's satisfied in every way.
Of Role-Play Night
Give her a piece of paper and ask her to write down three scenarios that she'd like to play-act with you. Tell her to be honest. No matter what she says you will not judge her and you will do your best to play out any scene that she wants.
At the same time you will write down three of your own scenarios.
Make a Pact: you promise to indulge each other as best as you can no matter how silly the scenario. Take turns acting out each other's fantasies. Give each other the opportunity to make modifications to any of the scenarios. This will be a good way to see if she has a true psychological block to spanking. If she does, make a note and talk about it later but don't dwell on the subject, Remember, this is her night! Make sure and act out her scenarios no matter what.
You get the idea. Your fantasies can be on the dominant, assertive side but very caring and loving at the same time.
Your Spanking Scenarios
The First Spanking
Put her over your knee gently. Do lots of bottom rubbing. Compliment her shape. Express your delight in the panties she's wearing. Make her feel like the most beautiful creature in the world while she's over your lap. Start spanking very gently. Light taps. Take note of her reactions. Is she wiggling? Grinding into your lap? Sticking her bottom up higher? All these are great signs and a go ahead for you to continue. Body language is an excellent way to gauge her real feelings for spanking.
Her Role Plays
The Next Day
Talk about your reactions. Tell her how much you appreciated her participation. Talk about the scenarios and how well she did. At this time, you can mention that you especially liked the spanking scenario. If you sense that she's been happy with events thus far, you can disclose that spanking kind of turns you on. Don't tell her exactly how much. Just mention that there's something about seeing her bottom redden that drove you wild. Compliment her body a lot and explain how cute she looked playing a naughty girl. You can even act a little bewildered at this time - "gee I don't why I liked this but I did".
The Next Six Months
Try and do a few more role play evenings. If she continues to be open and receptive, you can add more and more spanking role plays and hopefully she'll have some ideas of her own. Slowly you can share some of your spanking erotica with her. Show her some milder spanking video and magazines. Always talk about spanking in a positive way as something that is fun and enjoyable for both parties. Remember to also focus on her fantasies and things that turn her on.
Follow my plan and if you encounter difficulties, go back to square one. Remember to be attentive to her, make sure you make her feel like she's the most special person in your life and give her lots and lots of sexual satisfaction. The more satisfied she is; the more she'll be open to satisfying you.
This plan has proved successful and I promise it can work for you. Remember to be patient, loving and attentive. If you have any questions or comments, feel free to email. Let me know how the "Jacqueline Omerta Role-Play Plan" works for you. Happy Spanking!
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