Dear Jacqueline,
I've always had a fascination for outdoor spankings, and recently met a lady who feels the same as I do about baring a bottom and reddening it in the open air!
I realize it's not so easy to find a secluded spot if you're in a city, but where we live there are many thousands of acres of undeveloped land and enough secluded areas that the sound of loud smacks and tearful wails are unlikely to be heard, except by the startled wildlife!
Even if there are people within a reasonable radius (slapping noises must travel easily through the quiet of a forest I guess!) the chances of an inquisitive tourist stumbling upon our little bare bottom disciplinary scene is unlikely. The vague chance of being discovered does, however, add a little hot spice to the proceedings!
I say bare bottom discipline, because my girlfriend (who is some ten years younger than I) loves to play the naughty little daughter who just can't keep out of trouble, and I the strict but loving daddy who has to give her those spankings again and again...and again! She really can take quite a long session with my hand or the little round paddle we bought especially for her cute little rear.
So while I'd advise fellow adventurous spanking enthusiasts to exercise a little sensible caution about location, I would recommend some cool outdoor air on your naughty partners bare bottom, just before you soundly smack the circulation back into it!
I'm sure we can't possibly
be the only ones who like to spank in the great outdoors, so we'd be really
interested in reading about other members experiences... and locations!
Take care and play safe.
- Tim & Gina
Tim and Gina,
Thanks for writing and I'm sure other members will have their own adventures to share.
Personally, I think the idea of outdoor spankings can be a real adrenalin rush. It's kind of like making love in a public place. The fear of getting caught makes it all that more exciting.
To add to the above, I have participated in out door spanking games too. I have also given spankings in the back of a taxi cab and once I even spanked a model in the dressing room because she was getting difficult about getting wardrobe.
Looking forward to hearing other stories about the same.
- Jacqueline
After many years of pondering the matter, I've decided to get to the bottom of my love affair with spanking.
From as far back as I can remember the idea of spanking females and being spanked by them excited me. I felt terribly guilty about these feelings, certain that there was something terribly wrong with me, but being so stimulated by them that I sought out ways to act them out at every opportunity.
When I started dating, I was able to act on my love of spanking. In the beginning most of my play involved my contriving an excuse to spank my date. Birthdays, being late for a date, any excuse would do. Most girls were fairly cooperative and I made sure a trip over my knee wasn't too painful, but was very playful!
Things really heated up when I got to college. I remember one young in particular.We were both full of mischief! She had long red hair and a lean, tall body with an adorable bottom. When I visited her in her dorm room after class one day she suddenly said, "I am way behind in my studies...Please don't spank me!" Grasping this as the wonderful invitation it was, I immediately told her that I was afraid she had to be spanked. That she was a naughty girl who I had to turn over my knee. I easily had her face down over my lap where she wanted to be and gave her a delicious spanking on her bright red pants which we both enjoyed immensely.
I took Carla out on a date about a week later. We were sitting on the couch in the den when she suddenly decided to get playful. She untied one of my shoes. I warned her not to do that and she untied the other one. I tied them and told her that if she untied them again I would pull down her pants and give her a panty spanking! Not only did she untie them, she tied them together, I promptly began to turn her over my knee telling her that I had warned her.
I started pulling down her black stretch pants, which came down rather easily while she was on all fours with my left arm around her waste. She started squealing and giggling as her pants slid down to her knees revealing her cute bottom covered snuggly in a pair of pink cotton panties with light blue flowers on them. I positioned her over my lap and began spanking her. I gave her around 20 sound spanks to the seat of her panties as she laughed and giggled and squirmed across my knee. We were both blushing and her bottom was pretty and pink when I finished.
I think this is a good out let for us to express our spanking tales. Can't exactly talk about this at the office watercooler. Thanks for giving us this forum.
- Gerry
Dear Gerry,
Wow - I'm impressed. You share some great technique about how to get women to play with you. You seem like a natural when it comes sniffing out the spank vibe. How ironic that you guys found each other. That's so impressive since so many of us have difficulty recognizing a potential spanking partner.
Thanks for sharing your fascinating story. I look forward to hearing from you again.
- Jacqueline
I'll cut right to the chase. When I was about 4 years old, I started having spanking fantasies...I was always the dominant one. The baby sitters, the school teachers, Sunday school teachers, almost every woman I saw!. At the time, I obviously couldn't explain these feelings, but, throughout my 35 years, I have begun to recognize the eroticism and romanticism of the experience.
I find it to be the highest form of flattery from a woman when she consents to these fantasies; "I trust you enough to surrender my every ounce of composure, my mind and my body to you.....". It may sound strange, but it almost brings me to tears in the most wonderful way!!
I have to admit though, I don't fulfill this fantasy often enough. My problem is that, I am a very nice guy and a gentleman to ALL women. Please don't be offended, but I find that most women think of a dominant male as being either tattoo wearing, arrogant, leather clad, Bikers or arrogant businessmen. Unfortunately, these women end up with unromantic, often physically abusive men. And that is very sad; very tragic. How should I convey myself as being dominant without being obnoxious?
As I was saying earlier, spanking for me is almost an out-of-body experience. It's that sensual!!. We're on the couch, she's across my lap, I firmly massage her shoulders as I scold her softly. I tell her, "I love you dearly, but you need this right now...." VERY EROTIC!
I would like to further discuss spanking with you via E-mail (among other subjects. I would be honored!!
- Charles
Dear Charles,
Too many of us get caught up in the role rather than the event of spanking. Spanking is extremely erotic and definitely hot foreplay.
Don't get hung up on conveying yourself as dominant. Just present yourself as you are - a caring man who knows how to treat a woman. Believe me, that's far more of a turn on than the other stereo-type roles you describe and many adhere. I think the type of woman who you may be looking for will appreciate a man who is polite, opens doors and makes the dinner reservations. He is assertive in a stylish way. He makes the plans but does the research and knows what his woman wants.
When it comes time for bedroom play, you can become a bit of a dominant. That doesn't mean verbal abuse - it means being strong and taking control.
I like your approach and think you're on the right track. What actual experiences have you had - good or bad. I hope other successful spankers will write in with some advice for you. It's not about being dominant, submissive, top or bottom - it's how you are as a human being; especially how you treat others.
- Jacqueline
Good Morning Ms. Jacqueline,
I recently bought a few of your DVD Videos, and if I may I would like to give you some feedback on them. First I want to say they were "OUTSTANDING" . I want to tell you that my favorite is 'Discipline Down on the Farm' with 'Spanked and Shaved'.You and your company does an excellent job with them and I really love the action.
For some reason having a beautiful woman over my knee with their bare bottom in the air has really turned me on. I also believe that more men should give their wives a good bare bottom spanking to keep them in line.
In the past I have spanked a few different girl friends. One of them told me that she was a spoiled brat, and was never given any attention. I changed all that. One evening she got all the attention she ever needed by being put over my knee with her panties lowered down to her ankles. Now that girl is my wife and we are very happily married.
Please keep up the good work and I'm looking forward in seeing new videos in the near future. By the way when you are the Spanker you do a excellent job. Please keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi Jacqueline,
I'm a big fan and thought I should write you to let you know how much I've enjoyed the tapes you make. I love how the spankings, even if they are hard, never seem cruel. Some of the companies that make hard stuff seem to be made by angry misanthropes. But your tapes make discipline a loving gesture.
And regarding 'Maid For Spanking': this is the best movie with Summer Cummings. I've seen her do a lot of spanking and bondage tapes but they've been pretty weak. She also doesn't give a lot of facial expressions in most things I've seen, but she really came to life on your lap.
- Eric
Dear Eric,
Thank you for your compliments and glad you enjoy our videos. Summer Cummings was a pleasure to spank. Unlike many companies, we try and shoot in real time as much as possible. Once the action gets started we let the cameras roll so everyone can get into the spanking. We try and provide a safe environment and let people get involved with the scene. After all, we are shooting punishment spankings; not a TV sit-com or Hollywood movie. What we attempt to do is capture spanking as it really happens and create an atmosphere of true punishment and discipline.
Summer was allowed to be herself during the shoot. I just let her react to the spanking in her own way. Perhaps she felt comfortable enough to get inside and be in the moment. That's the best way to illicit natural reaction.
I do believe that spankings are administered to punish but I really adhere to the fact that a spanking is given for the person's own good. Spanking is a gesture of love and caring. I'm a very nurturing person and wouldn't spank unless I felt a spanking is necessary and will affect a positive change in behavior.
- Jacqueline